Nat Nat

I remember in middle school, there were girls that the boys would call "nat nats". I'm honestly not sure where that term even derives from, I'd have to check urban dictionary or something for the history. It basically means 'hoe', 'slut', or 'whore'. I always felt different than the other kids because they'd make up crazy rumors about these young ladies, bash their sexuality, and slut shame them. I truly didn't get it.... I know when I got to high school, my nudes got leaked at Tri Cities (I never went to Tri Cities, my brother Sidney did) and that was a whole fiasco. People were saying all types of things about me and calling me all types of names. Like... It's just a nipple? I don't get it? I think I was considered a Nat Nat at one point, but I'm not entirely sure. I didn't really hang out with anybody or talk to anybody when my nudes were leaked. I started working and enrolled in college. I just didn't have time for the bullshit, if I'm being quite honest. Even before my nudes were leaked, I still really sympathized and identified with those young ladies. What's so bad about having protected sex? Literally everybody does it. Now, everybody has different boundaries and concerns when it comes to that, but still. What happens in someone elses bedroom, it's not your fucking business. Stay out of it, you freak. I just couldn't get with that program. I don't think I ever could. If someone has sex with the whole football team, what does that have to do with me? I don't know the circumstances, I don't know anything about anything. Why bother judging? Alot of it was the envy that these girls got. Some people secretly wanted to be them. It's just weird.... I really don't believe in slut shaming. I have so much going on in my life (positive, negative, and indifferent) to even give a damn about someone else's body and what they do with it.